You didn't speak, we didn't listen'

I had to teach my life to follow this sentence, because ever since I saw this sentence happening to me, I found a method to make me happy, through which my life could pass very happily and freely.

How was this incident that became a method of happiness for me?

One of my sister-in-laws was from 'Holland', when she had to hide something of her own, she used to talk to my brother in her Dutch dialect. And we all kept looking at them. When this incident of his happened to me for the second time, this incident made its home in me. This incident became such a home that it also followed the tradition of giving me a happy life.

- How did I see this incident?

My Experience:

One day, all of us family members and some of our friends were sitting together and talking, when suddenly my sister-in-law started talking to my brother in Dutch. And we all started looking towards both of them. Even though no one was going to like this behavior, neither did I. But a question definitely arose in me that why did sister-in-law do this? After 36 hours, I understood something and I wanted to validate my understanding as to how much of it was correct?

I went straight to my sister-in-law and said, 'You did this for this reason'

The expression on sister-in-law's face confirmed my understanding.

Did you understand me, or should I say, what did I understand?

my understanding:

Even though everyone had come to meet the sister-in-law, the sister-in-law wanted to show that 'I am also something' (Sister-in-law is also something). The inferiority complex of the sister-in-law had drawn everyone's attention towards herself.

I could see and understand the hidden smile on sister-in-law's face. After this incident, sister-in-law's understanding gave me a deeper understanding of another side of life, in which I also saw the first glimpse of my happy life.

- How did this incident become a recipe for a happy life for me?

When this incident of sister-in-law happened in front of me for the second time, I thought, 'No matter who the sister-in-law is abusing now, we will not be able to know what she is saying.'

With this speech another thought arose in me that-

' Wow! Whenever we go to a country and we do not know the dialect of that country, then how do we solve our problems or those moments, those moments are so beautiful - why not from today onwards? Should I become a stranger myself?

Now my new method was standing before me and I had to pass through this new dimension. Whenever someone abused me, I had to ignore him, whenever someone got angry, I had to ignore him. I have lived life like an unknown person, until there was no event from another dimension ahead of me, which did not prove to be a milestone for me.

This beautiful method of mine had first of all introduced me to patience.

  Patience:

  The form of patience is like this, I would never have been able to know how patience is patience in itself?

  In every speech there is a description of the ages and in every word there is a signature of the journey of the ages. How one word completes the journey of infinity in one moment - it opens an even deeper and wonderful story.

This method of mine started taking me on the journey of the word patience. The warmth of the embrace of the word patience was a divine experience - in whose embrace I again felt a deep emptiness.

When the feeling of deep emptiness in the depths of patience hit me again, I also understood that-

  'Why- is it a journey of silent death?'

- Now what did I achieve through this method?

Through this method I discovered patience and experienced deep emptiness.

   True Emptiness:

    The emptiness blooming in patience was so beautiful that nothing could be more beautiful than that. In that valley of patience my silence remained in its exquisite emptiness. - That is why the flowers of experiences shower on silence like rain. Silence is so silent that life starts searching for itself.

  Silence prevails and life stops paying attention to itself, and life does not even hear its own voice.

And then the silence also passed and even life did not realize that the silence was passing. Emptiness started flowing through me like a very calm wind, like a very vast space and I kept flowing.

And I understood from this silence that

'Never lose touch with the outer and inner silence - learn to live in it and understand that everything in life has a purpose. There is no mistake, there is no coincidence, all events are blessings given to us to learn - which make it a mystery in the form of the inexorable law of the policy of the universe